This is why I’ll never complain about my taxes going to others who need a hand up, too.
I’ve repaid that initial “investment” in me 1000s of times over by now.
This is how the system should work. Governments should be here to invest in all people, not just rich people. /end
My take on taxes, the social contract and giving people a hand up.
First, I don’t think anyone *likes* paying taxes. Well, except for
@mcuban
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In the ‘90s I didn’t pay taxes since I was mostly reliant on the state. I had a couple of kids and was raising them mostly alone. /1
If you’ve never gone hungry or didn’t know how rent was getting paid or you couldn’t afford diapers, you have no idea how utterly exhausting and demoralizing it is to be poor. I was completely broken by the system. Everything was a struggle. I didn’t know how to keep going. /2
A minor setback like an NSF bank charge could take months to financially recover from.
In the spring of ‘97, I broke down. I was sobbing sitting on the floor of my kitchen while trying to entertain my toddler.
It was then I realized that education was my only way out. /3
Fast forward a couple years. I was enrolled in a BA program. I had student loans, grants, SA in between semesters, food bank, subsidized daycare (no payment), subsidized housing (below market rent). And I had the Child Tax Benefit (now the CCB). We were just scraping by. /4
But we did it. The sacrifices were immense-the ones my kids made, too.
Got a job on Parliament Hill, packed up and drove from BC to Ottawa where we didn’t know a soul. I was 32, with 2 kids, a professional job and *just* earning enough to pay the bills. Did a post-grad year. /5
Paid off my $80K in student loans at 45. At 50, I opened my consulting firm.
This is where that social contract reference comes in. I recognize my story may be atypical, I get that. But the fact that I had an opportunity to not only change my circumstance but to succeed… /6
despite my situation speaks volumes.
Had I been in Ontario at the time of Mike Harris rather than in BC I’m highly doubtful I’d have had the same opportunity.
During those years in university, I became politically active and passionate about post secondary education. /7
The conservative mayor of my small town told me that “education is like cable tv, if you can afford it, you can get it.”
That is *not* who we should ever be.
Apropos of nothing, a few years later that mayor went to jail for fraud and forgery. 🤷🏻♀️
/8
For prob close to a decade, my little family was subsidized by tax payers and I am forever grateful to have been given an opportunity to achieve beyond my wildest dreams.
I’ve worked hard but without the system in place to help with a hand up I’ve no idea where I’d be now. /9
@lisakirbie
Bravo - it still wouldn’t have happened without your determination and hard work. These programs don’t make it easy but a make it possible for many. Thanks for sharing your story (and suggest deleting if the sharks start mistaking it for chum).
@JL_Braden
Thanks, Janice. It was definitely an uphill battle trying to line up all the resources, and fighting a system designed to not be easy. There were many times I wanted to give up but I didn’t view it as having a choice. It wasn’t just for me to have a better life, but the kids, too
@Tintie4
Thanks, Cynthia. I was really privileged to have amazing mentors along the way. Especially the conservative poli sci prof who challenged me and made me the political junkie I am today.