The way coloureds last longer in relationships should really be studied😭. Those people can start dating in high school, get married, have kids and grow older together 🥹🤌🏻

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko A similar thing can be said about black men. They're never content with what they have, always chasing skirts and only want to settle when they're 45. There are also women chasing rich guys and want yo settle at 35. I believe it is a black person thing, not a gender thing.

@thapie_018 @RefilweSeboko Fair point, yes we love women but that doesn’t change that as black men we are expected to meet ridiculously high standards to be afforded the same respect. So yes it is a black thing, we are toxic towards each other

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko Ae this not true...why say this about your own??

@ngwanamosotho40 @RefilweSeboko Lol but coloured guys can be having an ordinary low paying job and an old golf velocity and still be respected, but with black men the standards we are expected to meet are high and ridiculous

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko But don’t black man who are millionaires strictly marry non black women?

@Swiftiebaby88 @RefilweSeboko Not all, maybe in the sates and europe but here we not like that

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko That's bcos most of their men actually don't like working, they have to buy them skuif and sneakers. The guys aren't even job hunting they're content (nt all)

@t_tspi @RefilweSeboko Don’t lie, most coloured gents I know are hard workers and family men

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko You would need to draw so many parallels to really make this a conclusion. There’s a lot more going on that makes women want a wealthy man, while many women take care of these “wealthy men”

@amablaqbuttafly @RefilweSeboko Im talking at face value and generally

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko To provide for girls with a high track record and baggage.. we are a messed up society

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko They expect men to be millionaires?? Lol sir, how many millionaires do we even have in SA? A country where more than 70% of the workforce make less than R10k? And how many men do you know who don’t have girlfriends or wives just single because they are not millionaires?? 😂😂

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko Yup. The bare minimum for them... not even the world expects them to be better people so they don't even try waste their time going to school. They get their job quick at a bank ,get a polo, flat and live happily ever after

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko this is how we know you don’t even know a single coloured person talk less of a couple 💀😭

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko Coloured men put their women and family first. Also instead of Labola we save over R100k for that wedding she wants. Instead of the Merc we secure the house and make sure Investments are locked in. We don't pay for weaves so that's a bonus.

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko They are nartured, socialised and broad up differently from us, they are not status conscious or have class contradictions.

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko They usually provide for the men. Talking about all the coloured girlies I know & have worked with

@kingvegan101 @RefilweSeboko Black women just need to take an L on this one , there's no defence , coloured girls are loyal in rships n will ride or die with their man whether his black or coloured