@kokoroks
icks are like, little things that make one person like the other less, so something like "my boyfriend and i were at karaoke and he sounded really bad i got the ick..." its basically a dumb normalized way of making fun of ur partner for stupid insignificant shit
@dahffodil
A lot of the things people have deemed "icks" are actually things that make me love my partner more, like, when he does a little happy dance after eating, when he forgets the lyrics to a song, when he turns his legs into a drumset. All of these are ICKS someone has posted. HOW??
@dahffodil
Idk I think the 3 month rule is valid. Almost all of my relationships would absolutely fall apart at the 3 month mark. I think it's less of a "don't do this til you're past 3 months" but for me it's "if you make it past 3 months you're more likely to be long term"