Synastry + composite charts are so important because they show you what to be aware of in your relationships. If you pay attention to who you attract, you can be aware of cycles and patterns.
Ex: I know now that if I get involved with a Scorpio rising, my finances take a hit.
This is bc in a composite chart, my rising + a Scorpio rising turns out to be a Capricorn rising. Usually, Saturn, the chart ruler lands in the composite 2nd house, showing both of us take a financial hit being together and have to work harder toward accumulating money.
I have moon opp Pluto natally. I dated multiple partners where we either had moon - pluto synastry or my moon in their 8th, their moon in my 8th.
While the attraction was strong, this aspect usually pulled out mother wounds in my partners, turning the relationship toxic
But I was fully aware of what that wounding felt like when triggered bc I had it natally. So even though I could handle the intensity of the relationship, they could not.
@pvssypowerrr
You would want to be careful of criticizing each other. This can influence both of you wanting to improve your health, hygiene, or jobs, but can turn nitpicky and mean. when things are going exactly as planned. You should know where you want to go with each other.
@awesomemikaila
Youโre right on time - i just did a deep dive the other night and found almost every significant relationship iโve had has been Mars in the 12H.
@awesomemikaila
hmmโฆ i wonder if this is where my codependency was coming from. i attract Libras/Libra risings a lot and thatโs something that iโve noticed - the inability to be alone.
@awesomemikaila
Scorpio risings are horrible at money management. My sister and best friend spend it as soon as they get it. Always broke but make good money ๐คฏ