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. go look at flowers instead of bullying ppl bc you can't take accountability .
Joined August 2023
i still think they could pivot. maybe they could set up a "D&G favorites" show...with a special date arranged btwn both sides...? or maybe they could invite San to do a 1 week "behind scenes" vlog of their creation process in prep for the next show? @dolcegabbana @ATEEZofficial
My heart is hurt. This is so unfair. Before people went with excuse "he's a grown ass man he can speak up if he wants" only when it comes to him. Now he spoke up for himself. He said he TOLD THEM MONTHS PRIOR, he's disappointed, he also wanted to go. But his company ignored him.
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Character limits don’t exactly allow for ppl to express their entire thoughts so I felt it was more important to correct the mistranslation. I know the issues with ai and I’m against it too, so pls don’t make enemies where there aren’t any 🥺
@valleyspeech regardless
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Atiny - "be the change you want to see." there's a lot of swearing/blaming/pointing fingers rn. but isn't that the same energy you're mad at? so maybe...ask ktiny why they felt that way, why they did this, and maybe those convos will = change+understanding #CHOISAN #산 #최산
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i try not to post on X but this has definitely turned into bullying and it's not actually helping anyone. bc of the memes about mingi girl (even the term), it looks a lot like what star wars kid (Ghyslain Raza) went thru in 2003. So Atiny...why? bullying should never be a trend
guys please send help this has been FRYING me all day i haven’t laughed this much in so long i might die save mingi PLEASE
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15/and Im setting some personal boundaries bc of this event, as well as this public one: My experience and perspective in this situation are not up for debate. I felt hurt when ppl att&cked me/made negative assumptions, and if it repeats in the future, I will block immediately
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14/One of my fav YT channels for learning psyc stuff is this one: https://t.co/96j4WkyoJw No ones perfect. Im not either. I feel pretty hurt by what happened, and think it's unfair to be att&cked for participating. this shouldn't be happening if Atiny value diversity/inclusion.
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13/what we'll do if they continue to choose to do that. aka? it lets someone choose whether they'll respect us to keep the relationship, not respect us, or walk away. its really hard to do this in the heat of the moment, i just learned. so again:take a breather. then respond.
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12/ healthy boundaries should be to protect yourself. So its something like: "i feel xyz when you do abc. in the future, if you do abc again, i'll have to do hjk to maintain my peace." its not a command/threat/accusation. it shares how an action made us feel, that its not ok,
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11/that some ppl want to believe the worst about others, and/or just dont want to interact with some people. idk. that's the point: we can't know unless someone tells us they're upset or sets a boundary. Setting a boundary does not include threats/accusations, though.
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10/deleting my post once I saw the first passive aggressive reply/hidden posts and realised there might be an issue. So dont be like me. Just block and delete, or have a cry and then ask a clarifying question. But bc i see this so often in Atiny circles, im starting to think
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9/im the only one at fault, wished me "healing" (my healing is my business and I shouldnt have to give receipts), called me names, told me that i was being ridiculous and should just be quiet. aka? they didnt care about my side of events. and i could have avoided it by just
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8/so in hindsight - the best reaction to a passive aggressive response might just be to delete the posts and block someone, because I think nothing I could have done would have changed their perception of me. And that's essentially what the flying monkeys showed, too. they think
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7/would have said this to me, I would have been able to apologize and delete and move on. They doubled down, insulting me, so I defended myself (which yeah - wasn't right either. i should have slowed down and clarified what was going on/why they were talking to me that way).
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6/sure if theres a word or term for this, so I went looking and found this (and the reddit post linked above). https://t.co/mj15n9BP8b In any case, when you feel hurt, an easy way to communicate that is literally, "this makes me feel hurt. It's not polite to do this." If they
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5/I then found out through the flying monkeys that they saw themselves as innocent, and thought I was sh1tting all over their hard work, which is not true - I was literally trying to participate. So for some reason, theyve assumed things about me from one interaction. Im not
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4/When I responded how that made me sad/worried something was wrong, they doubled down calling me crazy for thinking it was ever okay to h1jack someone's threads. When I defended myself, they doubled down and blocked me before I could do what they wanted (delete my posts).
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3/read so that others know they're not just seeing things and that yes, this is a problem. What happened: i saw a cool thread, i wanted to participate and posted my own ideas bc i thought thats how ppl participate, and the person hid my replies/replied passive aggressively.
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2/no interest in listening to my side of things/continued to call me names & say rude things. I feel pretty hurt and upset, and all of those people are blocked. But this happens A LOT in Atiny circles, so I'm leaving those posts up and also want to post some things I watched and
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