@SomaKazima Red flags don’t just pop up, they get ignored, justified, excused away. They may start off as baby flags, mere annoyances, but you certainly can see them. If you’re actively assessing people during the early time, you most certainly make an assessment within a year

@theaprilnoelle You can, but I feel like it's definitely situational

@SomaKazima I get where he's coming from because some people seem absolutely perfect for YEARS until they're put in a certain situation, then all of their bad qualities start popping out.

@TravisVillain I agree

@SomaKazima We might have a lot less damaged folk running around if people really took the time to get to know their partner before adding another life into the mix

@Its_Jyggy ❗️❗️❗️

@SomaKazima she would have a kid w someone after living w them for six months????????

@the1__theonly That sounds about right lmao I've known friends that have had kids after less time lmao

@SomaKazima Honestly, like there’s no magic year mark you know someone by, but like… having a whole ass human child with someone, idk, spend as much time as you can getting to know them first

@Gahlahad Agreed!

@SomaKazima He's right. I wouldn't move in with anybody after 3 months, either. That's too short a time.

@GlowySweetFab I've seen people do it lol time & time again & it never plays out good

@SomaKazima He’s 100% correct. My marriage didn’t last five years. I found out after it was already over that she was participating in orgies and stealing narcotics from hospitals. After my daughter passed away, it’s looking more and more like she was the one that messed with the ventilator.

@SomaKazima I spent 5 years with someone and thank God we didn't reproduce. We lived together but under her parents roof. It was an eye opener.

@SomaKazima The show Big Brother has the best track record for marriage and there’s something to be learned from that. Spend extended amounts of time together- travel, stressful situations. Don’t just see someone for a few hours once a week- when someone can be on their best behavior.

@SomaKazima This did not even mention the court system being packed vs men, and/or how easy it is for the women to take half of everything…and she’s shook…why is that?…………

@SomaKazima He’s 💯 correct.

@SomaKazima I’m with him 😌

@SomaKazima He’s right I fear

@SomaKazima Women promote you rushing into relationships with them because they know they can’t keep the mask up for long… time reveals all lies and the representative they give you will break after about a year or 2, 99% of them won’t last 5 years…