Oh and not sure if this matters but I donโt give the shaderoom or any one permission to share this thread on their site, socials, or whatever tf lol. Naw but deadass.
Thereโs this thing women do in the influencer/celebrity space when they fall from grace. They try to garner support by aligning with cishet men. Especially if they lose the support of women.
Being a pick me is how they get that attention back. Part of why I find it funny is because itโs almost an insult to these men that they know how easily swayed these niggas are lmao.
But the other reason I find it funny is because, they find comfort in being a pick me but itโs a false sense of security. The only thing you can bet on with these men is their ability to have the audacity, not their ability to support and uplift you without conditions.
Pick mes who will fuck with her logic and the niggas who love pick mes for their own manipulative gain are in abundance but both demographics are fickle. One is ever changing because more women are unlearning and the other is niggas who gon nig at the end of the day.
Patriarchy got a hell of a grip on some of yโall Black women. My only hope is that yโall are able to free yourselves from that shit cuz it ainโt worth it. Whoever is reading this, baby, it ainโt worth it. Find you a system/structure that doesnโt get Black women killed.
On that note...this will be muted, itโs still a pandemic so stay yall asses at home (if you can), work to ABOLISH everything white supremacy touches, donate to Black trans and non-binary folks, and