When ur discernment is sharp enough.. u donโt necessarily need ppl to be honest w you.. U simply need to communicate & ask certain questions. Whether they lie or not.. between their articulation, body language & followed actions.. you can get the clarity u need
When u feel that u are VERY capable of this .. u will FEEL safe taking more & more risk w ppl .. as ur primary sense of safety wont come from their treatment.. but rather YOUR OWN awareness & discernment. Your ABILITY to handle whateeeever comes. This allows FALLING n2 love
Pls donโt mistake this as saying to permanently & immediately trust ur discernment/intuition ๐ Sharp discernment involves knowing u CAN conclude wrong & that even when *intuition is right, it can be READ wrong once processed thru LOGIC . Pure Observation & humility R vital๐โs
@Huemvn_BEinG
Iโve felt too safe in unsafe spaces in the past by telling myself everything was fine because I trusted people too much in the past. What does this mean?
@HiddlstonFan
Most likely was cognitive dissonance.. u likely were not completely right or wrong about any of ur conclusions. N situations like that, best to think out N depth.. w time being a huge factor. Ppl change overtime so accurate discernment for one moment doesnโt mean itโll be..
@Huemvn_BEinG
this is great advice but remember neurodivergent ppl display body language thatโll may come off as unusual or unfamiliar to ppl who arenโt.
@careyxcarter
Iโm saying 2 trust ur *self .. to cultivate sharp enough discernment & intuition N order to do so
Trusting intuition can lead to self sabotage
@Huemvn_BEinG
@zoezoe1012_
Absolutely.
When you're locked in with your intuition you're reading the words, and the silences. The energy and the context.
Just gotta follow thru and not gaslight yourself!!
@Huemvn_BEinG
@fckouttahere__
Iโve learned this about myself and it has helped me remain calm and less anxious about the feeling of betrayal. Maintaining clear communication also makes things very apparent and blatant; which affects the pace at which I make decisions now ๐๐พโจ