We invite evil by failing to set boundaries. Cultures that were too warm and accommodating were among the the first to be colonized and last to be liberated. #boundaries #coaching.#therapy.

Eliminate These 3 People-Pleasing Traits To Attract High Quality People

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❌ People-pleasing is motivated by fear of disapproval and of losing someone or something in a relationship. Whereas. ✅ Kindness is a free choice motivated by a desire to uplift the other without any fear of disapproval or losing.

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Real strength is found in being able to connect, receive help , give help and in the warmth of a loving, supportive boundary healthy community. Your Healing Guide.Ajay Almeida.

Here's what you must never say!."I admire how strong you are". Because being alone in the face of a divorce/ bad health/ financial problems/ children's hospitalisation/ .is what no human being wants to be proud of. This so-called strongness is false.

Would you like help researching options?.- Can I drive you to the appointment?.- I am free to sit with you this evening. - I can lay out your weekly medication. - How can I best support you through this?.- What do you need from me?.- I am here to listen to you.

Say this the next time you come across courageous people going through a difficult time. Whichever is relevant for the situation. - When is a good time for me to help you with your kids?.- Can I help you with a meal tonight?.- Do you want to talk or need a distraction?.

You cannot build authentic relationships while consumed with people-pleasing. People-pleasing leads to attracting manipulative, toxic and Narcissistic personalities because they are always on the lookout for someone soft, submissive and without boundaries. #buildwithajay.

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"Empaths and highly sensitive individuals possess a unique gift: the ability to deeply understand and connect with others. Remember, your sensitivity is your strength.".Brene Brown.