Abiti Zaladi
@Abiti_Nyonyo
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Saved by grace. Wife. Mama. Therapist. Advocate. Pan-African voice. Healing minds & shaking systems with purpose.
Malawi
Joined November 2016
Niggas will ignore things like premarital sex in the Bible and focus on anklets 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The bible does not say anklets symbolise whatever you people are talking about. It does talk about vanity and pride but also adornment, beauty, wealth and status. The rest is for you and your ancestors. How do you look at an anklet and think "she's inviting me for sex"? Mxxxxm
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Now I understand why older people are calmer… after you’ve died enough times inside, you learn to breathe, let go, and simply be.
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Let’s focus less on labeling and more on understanding. Compassion helps more than assumptions ever will.
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Proper diagnosis requires clinical evaluation. It’s not something we can determine from a few bad interactions or social media behavior
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Traits like selfishness, arrogance, or lack of empathy can show up in many contexts like stress, trauma, insecurity, or even other personality disorders. They don’t always mean NPD.
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Throwing the term “narcissist” around loosely can trivialize what people with actual Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) experience, and can also invalidate people dealing with other, very real mental health challenges.
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Not everyone you disagree with is a narcissist. Narcissism is a real personality disorder, not just a buzzword. Many conditions mimic its symptoms. Let’s be careful with our labels.
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Annabel Mtalimanja has proven to us all that we should not let our family backgrounds stop us from creating our own paths, different from our ancestors, in this world. Especially, if that path is the right one, regardless of it going against family ties.
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I don’t like people who cannot text properly. I text you, ‘Hey! How are you?’ and you respond with ‘Am gud n u?’ Why are you responding as if you’re in Gaza running away from Israeli missiles? Then you will be complaining when we ghost your stupid lazy ass!😂
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My dog is useless, yesterday we were both chased by another dog.😂😂
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Not everyone staring at you is admiring you, some are amazed you survived the traps they set for you.
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If a breakup is giving me sleepless nights and making me cry throughout, I’d simply just go back. Idc
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A good man becomes a better man when the right woman is in his corner
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If you’re in the talking stage and ask about their last relationship, and they admit it ended because they cheated, would you still date them?
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A healthy relationship requires two people pouring into each other's needs and desires.
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In this election, Malawians have primarily rejected Chakwera’s MCP, not necessarily accepted APM and DPP as righteous options. Going forward, my party MCP has all the structures needed to rebuild and bounce back. But first, we must get rid of the dunderheads we have for leaders!
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The way life goes on after people die is one of the most humbling and scary things in life.
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As a nation, let's unpack our daddy issues. We turn authority figures into father figures. From calling the president adadi to calling pastors papa. Ofunika family counselling.
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call me materialistic but money really makes me happy. a bank notification of incoming money makes me forget that i’m having a bad day 😭
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